Wednesday, November 30, 2022

Gobble Gobble (2022)

Turkey Time

        Experiencing the service we received in the United States Army during holiday time was a logistical wonderment to behold. It was Thursday, November 26th, 1953. We were part of the 180th Regiment of the Forty-Fifth infantry division and deployed at a place in the Yongyu Valley near the 38th Parallel in North Korea. The temperature was about twenty-five to thirty-five below zero, give or take. The fighting had ceased on the 27th of July in 1953, Monday, at precisely 9:00 PM.
        It was about a week or so before Thanksgiving day; from out of nowhere, in comes a team of engineers with three trucks loaded with building supplies to the point of explosion. Within one day, those guys erected a full and complete mess hall, capable of serving everyone in our company.


The prefabricated structure is known as a Quonset Hut, a building
made of corrugated metal and having a semicircular cross-section.

        On the Monday preceding Thanksgiving, a large quantity of food along with a detail of cooks and bakers began arriving in the wee hours of the morning. The extra cook's helpers had been flown in from Japan. Turkey, ham, shrimp, two or three salads, and all kinds of potatoes, along with lemon meringue, apple, and pecan pies. I honestly can’t recall what they served for hors d’oeuvres, but, I can tell you that none of us were disappointed. And I can’t recall the boxes of chocolate we received, but I do remember all of us had far more than we were able to consume. The only item left out was any form of hard liquor. (We were still considered a high-level combat zone.)
        That next day, we came to find out this was a common practice afforded to all of us serving our country anywhere and everywhere in the world. To this day, I think about it when the traditional holidays are upon us. If it’s at all possible, our American military is made for us to feel as much at home as a combat zone would permit.
        Replacing the freezing cold with the warmth of family and friends at Thanksgiving time serves as a reminder to me of how lucky a man I am today, some sixty-nine years hence. Please join me and mine on the celebration of this wonderful day for giving thanks. And if I may, here’s another heartfelt remembrance that manages to touch my soul, thinking back to what was a very personal day in the life and times of yours truly: Thursday, November 26, 1953.

My short remembrance:
More gently than imagined
Dinner had slowed to a savoring state
Many smiles adorned, pleased faces

Our company chaplain led a prayer
Giving thanks for this joyous meal
A final few words
The chaplain stepped away

Hey Rod, where’s that record player of yours
One of the guys called out
We knew he had it close by
Not a shock to me, it was under his seat

Rod set the “phono” in place
I stood alongside, smiling
Awaiting my favorite song to begin
Hand cranking completed, the needle in place

Never foreign to Rod and me
When he played Roy Hamilton
All around, listened

1953 Thanksgiving was special
At the moment, Rod and da harv were standing
The music began, and I remember
My eyes were closed during this festival

The first bar of music, a gentle call to arms sounding
Without any musical signal
All buddies around me began to stand
Rod and I were deeply enthralled

We began to sway to the sound
Our comrades joined in that Thanksgiving Day
It was November 26, 1953

We all listened as Roy Hamilton musically reminded us:
“We would never walk alone”

One hundred men, not walking alone!
Swaying in place as one


When you walk through the storm
Hold your head up high
And don't be afraid of the dark
At the end of a storm
There's a golden sky
And the sweet silver song of a lark.

Walk on, through the wind
Walk on, through the rain
Though your dreams be tossed and blown
Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart
And you'll never walk alone
You'll never walk alone.

Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart
And you'll never walk alone
You'll never walk alone.
-
Oscar Hammerstein II / Richard Rodgers

It was November 26, 1953
It was a very special day.

HK



Wednesday, November 23, 2022

As Our World Turns

"Abstractions"


The question is, what do you see?

What do you see? What do you feel? Are there any actions or decisions you’re in the process of making? Or do you find yourself flat-out stymied by life’s abstractions?


        Perhaps a gentle spin of your plate either up, down a little, a lot, or in another part of town. Change by itself represents movement. Whether we like it or not, most of the time, backing straight away from any one of life’s abstractions doesn’t clear it or lessen your feeling of the genuine pain actually being experienced.

“If you're going through hell keep going.”
Winston Churchill

Note: If you have the desire to become inspired by something an individual accomplished in their lifetime, even if it wasn’t publicly recognized until after said individuals were long gone, you might enjoy reading about the lives of Margaret Thatcher, Winston Churchill, or an actor named Ronald Reagan.

        A close friend of mine, who happened to also be a very accomplished athlete in his own right, had a charming way of describing women he greatly respected by often using verbal abstractions. As an example, I was having a conversation with him one day, and I enquired about his ninety-year-old mom's health. “Oh, you know, Harv,” he said, “she’s a horse!”

        …And not to my surprise, the reference to strong women as one of my frequently used guidelines for success was picked up by my very own Cathy Kalmenson. Da harv was well on his way to recovering from Covid and Cathy was being asked how I was doing. “Harvey's a horse,” she replied.

        Maybe it has become time for us to turn towards more good use of abstractions in our everyday life. Give the plate a gentle turn. “Wow, that dog's got muscle.”

Harvey Kalmenson

Wednesday, November 9, 2022

What Kids Can Say

What Kids Can Say

What kids can say
Oftentimes may blow you away

Their words, if or when you let them seep in
Origins
Perhaps amazingly
Soothe
Obstinate problems

Living truth creeps from a beating heart
Always from within
Sorrows from yesterday
Turn into blissful imagination of tomorrow

1943, ten years old

“My big brother ain't coming home anymore”

A hand is placed around his shoulder

They walk the playground schoolyard together
A little boy helping a little boy who weeps

Perhaps ending with a gentle kiss on a cheek
Maybe apologizing for the hurt he caused
They walk home together
There’s a gold star in the window
“My mom put it there”, he says,
“It was there for me to see when I got home
She was in bed crying when I got home”

Little boys offer sympathy
When they become men who speak
Quietly to one another
Paying attention
Maybe taking a knee
Maybe God will help now

If only a modicum
For each other’s welfare
To draw only from their blissful past
Joys remembered
Of what they felt and have learned
From life gone by too fast
Spreading around to all others

Watching a child waving their flag
And then continuing at home

All the neighborhood family’s parading around
Block party’s for all to spread love
WW2 has come to an end
1945

It was coming home time
Back in the United States of America
All arms around one another
Never again to be alone

        Every school kid attending PS 233 was aware of which of their friends had brothers or sisters serving in our country’s military. Often a brother on leave from the service was allowed to stick their head in and visit with a classmate. All the kids stood as one, and clapped and cheered in unison. Some kids were justifiably seen drying a tear or two.

Two of the top songs of the day were:
Les Brown's band playing "Sentimental Journey" with Doris Day as a vocalist

"It's Been A Long, Long Time", Louis Armstrong

        In the years of WW2, every child in every home learned from their mothers and or fathers about patriotism. Each day at school began with a pledge of allegiance to the flag of the United States of America. Every member of the families on our block shared the pride in men and women teaming up for our country in those terrible years of unbelievable grief.
        Harvey Kalmenson became twelve and, accordingly, he was merely one year away from being accepted and recognized for becoming a man by the elders of his tribe. Truth be told, at the time I was more into baseball than studying for my Bar Mitzvah, a little less than one year away.

Harvey Kalmenson

Wednesday, November 2, 2022

Bubbling Up To Our Brim

Bubbling Up To Our Brim

        A short while back in time, da harv was getting gas at a neighborhood station—the same one I purchase my lottery (escape) tickets at… There I was, pumping gasoline into my 2002 Ford Expedition. I had completed my purchase of twenty dollars’ worth of what would most likely be the winning numbers that would wondrously change my life forever.
        Known in my biblical trade as "my cup runneth over", please! I was praying simultaneously while placing the ten tickets in my special hiding place behind my special “Get Smart” hidden dashboard compartment. I’m the only one having any idea of how to break into my secret hiding place. If any of you out there in "TV-land" have a picture of Don Adams hiding his special directive order from “The Chief”, please pass it along to me. Unfortunately, I couldn't remember the entry code for the dashboard. The bottom line for those who care about the betterment of da harv—not to worry, it will come back to me. It always does…


        …In any event, I was standing there trying to figure out how to avoid this guy who had been sleeping alongside the entry door to the bodega portion of the station—it’s the place where I always buy my lottery tickets. If this guy doesn’t change his sleeping habits, I’ll have to find a different place to shop for my lottery tickets. I suppose I can manage the inconvenience. After all, living on the street can’t really be that sweet.

A leaflet of this or that to share with who or whom…
Moonglow without a shine
There we were
A guy with a Rolls Royce
Comes driving up
With top down and glowing finish
He just had to find someone
To tell his good tidings to
It had to be me I guess
There I stood awaiting his word
He told of how he dreamed hard, as a younger man, of this white convertible
With top down, he began
I just had to, he said
He brimmed with joy
He spoke of the past
How he made a vow
Thirty years since the military had gone by
His joy was real
When his "kid" dreams came true
Then driving away
Get yours now if you can
He saluted me
What fellow veterans sometimes do

On a hillside
In Korea, 1953

We gathered around
Making believe about the things
We were going to do
When we got back to our hometown
Some did, some didn’t make it
It was Christmastime
Every expression imaginable
Did abound
A buddy turned to me
It wasn’t my time to act the clown
He asked
What was the best
Your parents…
Gave to you
When you were a little guy
In your hometown
All became quiet, very quiet
While waiting for me to speak
I wanted to talk to Santa
Complaining to my Mother
She knew I couldn’t write
But I could speak
Father with his big smile allowed
What would you ask for
I want a very big car
That I can drive myself!

        My older sister was the one who got the assignment to take me to the department store's toy department and sit on Santa’s lap. And I relayed the story to the guys, it got a great laugh when I told my buddies how pissed off I got when discovering I wasn’t going to have Santa all to myself. (I think they gave me a toy machine gun that made this horrible rat-tat-tat sound that I awakened the household with every morning until, somehow, it disappeared from the apartment we lived in.

My first car:
1955 Ford convertible…
I’m proud to say I could drive it myself
Around town
That’s exactly the same color as the car
My mom and dad gave me
$500 bucks to put down


        A new day and a new time, yet, there remain many like me who find moments to think back to—another time when they craved a certain toy to play with. When I traveled to a department store's toy department with my sister, my favorite toy was a set of Lionel Trains. I would look at them and she, almost ceremoniously, pronounced: “We can’t afford it”.
        Well, last week, believe it or not, this kid—now eighty-nine years of age—didn’t have his ninety-five-year-old sister along for the ride. I saw it, I grabbed it. Without the approval of anyone telling me what I could or could not afford, there I stood in line at Costco, paying sixty-four bucks for my own set of Lionel Trains. The picture of me which follows resembles me holding tightly to my “Choo Choo” train set.
Obviously filled up to the brim!!!


Too early for Christmas…
Not for this "kid" to abide by
Get your Rolls Royce now
Don’t wait for the pleasure you deserve
Mine happened to be a choo-choo train
What’s yours?

Harvey Kalmenson